I know this question is silly...but asked earnestly. Does anyone know?

Hi Greci, have you thought of a cup and paper technique, I normally just pick spiders up and escort them outside where there are more flies for them to drink the blood off, but as you say this spider may be venomous I suggest maneuvering it into a gl and then covering the top with a piece of paper then you will be able to put the spider outside. If you want to keep her as a pet then maybe you should think about purchasing a tank and maybe finding her a friend or two. )))